As I read the last post and realized...oh that is exactly me on the feelings of being of no worth and thinking that the new girl is a wannabereplacementthatshe'llneveramountto type of girl. I have a bit of advice for all of those others that feel the same....
Once you break up it's over! The "Lets be friends" line is a joke. It is absolutely 200% necessary to not see him, talk to him, or any other communication with him for a good while before the "lets be friends" thing can kick in.
Now, I am not saying if it was just a casual dating relationship that the friends status couldn't be reached almost immediately but lets say you were dating for over a year and making commitments to each other and talking about getting married...the friends thing just doesn't work. Especially since guys seem to be able to move on with out a problem because it seems they can sever all emotional ties from you within a week or so...
Take it from a girl who has wasted the last 2 months or more of her life being pissed off at this whole "lets be friends" drama...it's not worth it.
But who knows...maybe in some future time the friends status can be reached. But that time is definitely not right now, fresh off the break-up, trust me.
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Hear Hear!
And if I can take a moment to quote Greg Behrendt (though I shudder with the amount of cliche points this is going to give me), "It's called a breakup because it's BROKEN". That means that something is obviously much wrong with the relationship anyway, otherwise you'd still be happily tooling down Love Avenue without a care in the world. Just like other things in life, a relationship needs to be either fixed or exchanged before it can have any positive use in a person's life. Otherwise, it's just junk sitting around that does more harm than good when you try to use it.
I agree with Tara, and Greg, on this one. Good on you for seeing that the two things you need lots of right now are TIME and SPACE. Chocolate optional.
Chocolate shouldn't be optional.
Amen.
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